Friends

:::True Friendship isn't about being there when it's convenient,

it's about being there when it's not:::

I realize I'm late on the "what I'm thankful for "post. And I try to keep my mushy posts to a minimum b/c really, who wants to read that stuff anyways? But, today I just can't help but look at my life and the people in it and just realize how blessed I am.

My friends are so amazing to me and I couldn't imagine life without the ones who have stuck by me for so long.

When you start a family, and start having children, things just change. There's always that old friend you had that isn't in the same point in their life as you; who you just grow apart from. It's life and it goes on.

There's those "best friends" who you had sooo much fun with before you decided to grow up that you thought would never be out of your life. And then they vanish when you move on.

I was reflecting today on the life I use to live and all the "friends" I had. I didn't grow up innocent, and didn't lead a picture perfect lifestyle. When I met Derek, I was just a little college girl out to have fun & party. I got in my fair share of trouble.My friends at the time reflected that. I make no regrets and know that if it weren't for that time in my life, I wouldn't be who I am today.

::: A Friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future,

and accepts you just the way you are:::

But something switched in me a few years ago. I realized I was ready to grow up and my friends who were ready would be right there beside me rooting me on. And they did. At least the ones that mattered did. I lost touch with some very important people in my life and was a little saddened, but I can't say I haven't tried my hardest to keep in touch.

It just makes you realize what a true lifelong friend is. And maybe it's something that you realize as you get older, but I'm glad I know who my true friends are. Even if the amount is a lot less than it use to be.

You all know who you are and I'm so blessed to have you in my life. I've known one since Kindergarten, one since 6th grade, one since forever, but we became friends later, and one since marriage. Thank you for all being so awesome and I KNOW we will remain friends forever!

Love ya'll!!

:::Even though we've changed and we're all finding our own place in the world, we all know that when the tears fall or the smile spreads across our face, we'll come to each other because no matter where this crazy world takes us, nothing will ever change so much to the point where we're not all still friends.:::