"Closet" post

Please go check out Murgdan's post that she guest wrote about being in or out of the fertility closet.

I just have to say that like her, I too was extremely private and almost embarassed of my infertility. Only my closest friends knew about it b/c my husband was very private & I felt ashamed. I am so thankful that I started blogging and meeting others like us & making new friends that could identify with me. I'm very aware that we did not have to go through NEAR as much as most of the IFers in the "blogger world" & I am so thankful, but I do understand the hurt & pain it causes to want a baby and be told you can't have one. We would have never thought it was possible at this time a year ago that we would have a baby on a way. And for that, we are Thankful! For those of you still struggling, just know that you are not alone and some how, some way, it WILL happen! XOXO